I want to change!

So many people want to “change” their lives, so why is no one doing it?

You are aware you are unhappy, you are aware you want something to be different but you don’t know where to begin this transformation. Awareness, courage and perseverance is all you need.

What do you want to change?! I don’t just mean, “I want a better job”, “I want more money” or “I want a boyfriend”. Question why you want these things. Why do you want more money? Why do you want a boyfriend? Usually when you do this you’ll realise that what you thought you wanted isn’t actually what you want and it’s something else you crave. To change we need to realise what it is we truly want to change. We don’t just want a new car, we want it because it makes us feel accomplished, recognised and worthy, is it actually this that we want?

We are scared. We are too scared to stand out, why do we spend so much of our time wanting to be like everyone else, wanting the same £500 heels that everyone else has. Why do we not love ourselves enough to let ourselves be who we truly are. To change we need to build this self-love and not be scared of the judgement from others if we fail. If we were to fail but nobody was to know would you be as scared? F@*k your “friends” that laugh or leave you out because you don’t conform to the group norm. No successful person has gotten where they are by wanting to fit in with their friends.

Is it too hard? Is it too hard to realise that we are the reason that we don’t get where we want to be? We blame it on where we are from, our age, our parents or We blame it on our past. Be mindful of who you are and what your goals in life is and really take the time and put in the hard work, there is no excuse.

It’s not easy to change but by recognising what we truly want, not being scared and putting in the hard work. We can get anywhere we want to get. Financially, spiritually, mentally or physically, no matter what your goal is there is always a way.